Monday, September 18, 2006

The sad story of two bright men ...

Two men. One, a double degree-holder and an Asean scholar. The other, a third and final year student at NUS. Both are obviously intelligent and smart. Their stars were shining, and their future looked almost bright and certain. But both men chose to be on the wrong side of the law.

The former faces a life sentence for having pushed his girlfriend onto an oncoming MRT train. It appeared that the girlfriend, who survived the ordeal, had wanted to break off with him. The latter committed burglary after learning that his father had insufficient CPF money to sponsor his university education. His is a story that could have turned out quite differently and perhaps with a happy note. When he was 15, he got into bad company, became addicted to gambling and went on a burglary spree to feed his habit. Caught and sentenced to seven years jail, the boy took his "O" and "A" level while behind bars, but was released on good behaviour five years later. He got into the university, and life seemed to be doing fine until he realised that he may have to drop out of study because of his father's depleting CPF money.

It's really sad to see these men throwing away their future like that. While not condoning their actions, I feel that these two young men are obviously troubled, perhaps even depressed. The first chap was said to be depressed over relationship problems. With their intelligence, why didn't they seek professional help? I'm no psychologist, but I think people who are unhappy do exhibit some signs to suggest that they are depressed or feeling really down in life. I wonder if the people around them saw their cry for help? I can't help feeling really sorry for them .....



Category: Musings

4 comments:

Victor said...

For this post, it's pertinent to quote you the lyrics from the song Human by Human League:

I'm only human
Of flesh and blood I'm made
I am just a man
Human
Born to make mistakes

Lam Chun See said...

I think today's young people lead much more complicated lives than my generation, being exposed to much more influences and thus subject to more pressures of all sorts. I think the law shd be more flexible in dealing with them.

Lam Chun See said...

In other words, they live in a more dangerous world; with more hidden minefields all around. Hence our roles have become more difficult too.

Chris Sim said...

Incidentally, two letters appeared in the forum today, asking the authorities, or whoever it concerned, to help the burglar undergrad complete his education. One of the letters say the Yellow Ribbon project is not just about giving a chance to those who have served time. It is also about grace. Some food for thoughts.